Guys:
There are a few lightning rod topics in the world that seem to
spark emotions and opinions that range from the ridiculous to the
sublime. But this is certainly one of those topics.
This has been a dominating topic in two of the last open-line call nights; so I thought I’d bring this Webinar replay back so I could get my own two cents thrown in to the discussion. I hope you enjoy . . .
Mark Davis
Published Author/CEO
Mark (age 49) and Anna (age 23)
Hey, Craig:
Here’s the show on YouTube if this helps: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qi6Ze8gLb-8&feature=colike
For us schmo’s working through firewalls and thus unable to play these videos, perhaps you could also include an MP3 file of the audio? That way I could file-save-as it and play it here like I’m a secret agent.
DW:
Thanks for sharing your story. Guys who deal with this have one problem in common; we want to fix it. Yes, it needs to be addressed but we are not the ones to decide how it should be addressed, yoiur girl is. She must dictate to you what your best approach is. If you boldly move to try to “impress” them thinking that you’ve got great people skills, or send them gifts because that has worked for others, and not allow your lady to guide the timing, sequence, etc., your chances of success are greatly reduced.
Let your lady know that you will follow her lead regarding her parents. It may turn out, as it did in my case, that she handles it on her own and your encounters with them are only positive.
Let us know how it goes!
Hi Mark:
I have an even larger age gap than you do with my Filipina gf. Visited her a couple times and will go back again soon. So like you I have a perspective around this issue.
My problem and question is that I know that my gf’s parents are not thrilled with her having an older (much older) bf. I have not met them yet but the plan is to meet them on my next trip. While she assures me that I should not worry – that she can handle them – well I am worried. I don’t want them against us and I want to show them respect. OTOH, I don’t intend to give up my gf just cause the parents aren’t happy.
Any suggestions?
A positive webinar , with great actual facts and experiences on the subject. Even before this webinar Mark and the tribe give you confidence and security to restart my quest. Yes I tried to do it by myself, meet and find a lady in Ukraine for a relationship before what I learnt here from Mark and Anna and the tribe. That’s another story. But all the other information I got was misleading and confusing on the Internet. What learnt here is so positive and understanding and a joy. It reaffirms what is in my heart and now what I believe to find my future lady abroad hopefully in Ukraine to have the family of my own that I have dreamed of.
Thanks Mark ,Anna and the Tribe for answering my questions and listening to my concerns!!!
Thanks Paul , Australia
What a great webinar!!!! Lots a great stuff and information about this age gap. When the day I go, the age thing will not pass my mind. Mark, you always say the “tribe” rocks but YOU ARE THE MAN!!
Thanks bro!!